Creating a Family Values Manifesto: Our Journey Inspired by Brené Brown
Last night, Austin Brady and I had a deeply meaningful conversation about our family values. We drew inspiration from Brené Brown’s brilliant “Whole-Hearted Parenting Manifesto,” which beautifully illustrates how our values shape our lives and relationships. Her example resonated with us so much that we decided to craft our own version, tailored to reflect our unique family message and values.
(Thank you, Brené 🙏🏽🌸)
Here’s a glimpse into what we came up with and how we plan to integrate these values into our daily lives. We’re excited to share it with you, and we hope it inspires you to create your own family values manifesto!
ABOVE ALL ELSE, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE LOVED AND LOVABLE. This fundamental truth will be evident in my words, actions, and the way I treat both you and myself. Our love is the bedrock of everything we do.
RESPECT: We will show respect by honoring each other’s boundaries, owning our mistakes, and making amends. You will learn what respect looks like through our actions and interactions.
HEALTH: Embracing rest, play, and well-being will be central to our family life. We’ll prioritize these practices to ensure that we all thrive physically and emotionally.
AUTONOMY: We’ll foster a sense of independence by highlighting the power of choices and the value of self-reliance. You’ll understand the importance of making decisions and standing on your own two feet.
ADVENTURE: Curiosity and courage will guide our exploration of the world. Together, we’ll seek out new experiences and embrace the excitement that comes with adventure.
GRIT: When life throws uncertainty or fear our way, we’ll rely on our inner grit to navigate challenges. This resilience will be a key part of our approach to overcoming obstacles.
GRATITUDE: Daily practice of gratitude will be woven into our lives. We’ll make it a habit to appreciate the beauty and lessons that each day brings.
SPIRITUALITY: We’ll nurture our connection to something greater than ourselves, seeking meaning and purpose in all that we do. Spirituality will be a source of inspiration and guidance for our family.
SERVICE: Compassion and helping others will be at the heart of how we show our love and respect for the world. We’ll actively engage in acts of service to make a positive impact.
As we embark on this journey, know that the greatest gift I can offer is to live and love fully. I may not be perfect, but I will always approach life with courage, integrity, gratitude, and spirit. You will always belong here, cherished and respected for exactly who you are.
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In conclusion, establishing clear family values is essential for creating a unified identity, guiding behavior, and strengthening relationships. These values provide consistency, support personal growth, and build resilience, while also fostering emotional well-being and shaping a lasting legacy. By embracing and practicing shared values, families create a supportive and meaningful environment that enhances connections and nurtures both individual and collective growth.
I’d love to hear about the values and messages you develop for your own family. Share your stories and insights with us!
Sending so much love from our family to yours. 💌
